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Are You A Green-Eyed Monster?
September 12, 2008 | Leave a Comment
O! beware, my lord, of jealousy; It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock the meat it feeds on. ~ William Shakespeare ~ [Source]
Jealousy is something that occurs in our lives. When someone of the same age as you gets mentioned in the papers for doing something that you have been doing far longer but he/she is more famous, are you jealous? What is jealousy?
Jealousy has been an enduring topic of interest for scientists, artists, and theologians. Psychologists have proposed several models of the processes underlying jealousy and have identified individual differences that influence the expression of jealousy. Sociologists have demonstrated that cultural beliefs and values play an important role in determining what triggers jealousy and what constitutes socially acceptable expressions of jealousy. Biologists have identified factors that may unconsciously influence the expression of jealousy. Artists have explored the theme of jealousy in photographs, paintings, movies, songs, plays, poems, and books. Theologians have offered religious views of jealousy based on the scriptures of their respective faiths.
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There are ways to overcoming jealousy. By letting jealousy ruin relationships, it affects a part of the trust that was built in the first place. Jealousy can be a daily challenge.
“It’s not fair that Steve gets more vacation time off from work than I do.”
“Kelly’s children are so well behaved. I wish mine would be obedient, so I’d look like a better parent.”
“Derek just got a new SUV. I wish I could be him!”
“Meredith got that promotion at work when I deserved it!”
The above are just some of the quotes we may have used sometimes. Jealousy is a negative emotion. It is also comparing ourselves with others. It may also poison relationships unintentionally.
Are you a green-eyed monster? Jealous that your girlfriend may find a handsome man who has bigger biceps than yours? How you you overcome it?
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